Is it common for a girl that is a virgin to not feel anything from for the first several times?

We recently had for her first time, and that time and several after she felt either nothing, small hints of pleasure or pain, then she would dry up. I did some research and even when she's fully going into it, when we start it would be the same results or a combination of them. I instructed her on how to use the pc muscle and then when we did it she actually got an . my question ladies is if a woman does not use that muscle, if she just lays there but she is fully should she still feel pleasurable sensations and should those sensations lead to ? is it true that if you can not make a woman reach without her squeezing that muscle your not endowed enough to please her? Is it possible that if she does not work it she can still reach climax? I understand that most woman need other stimulation and that the only has sensory nerves in the beginning of the but still I wonder?